Tuesday, October 2, 2018

RECONCILING YOUR INNER OCTOPUS LINK




It is October.  I have always called this the month of the octopus.  While it makes no sense numerically today (originally it was the 8th month on the Roman calendar), even though October is now what we know it is the tenth month – you’ll begin to see why I talk about this as being the octopus month, as you take a step back to examine October and what it is showing in the human world.

Look around.  What do you see?  

Companies are busy with their fourth quarter bottom-line.  People who work in the consumer businesses are focused on getting ready for November’s Black Friday holiday frenzy or they are passing out layoff notices because they see they need to re-strategize for the New Year.  

Many people are already sneezing/sniffling, feeling fatigue and are getting sick.  It is why flu shot conversation is rampant in both your community and in the news.  

Students who are just now adjusting to their fall semester know that juggling studies, exams and booking upcoming holiday travel for when after the quarter is over is like having several tabs open on their tablet. 

It seems as this final quarter of any given year unfolds, humans zoom into this juggling act with eight arms trying to do too much with such urgency, chaos ensues, and many beings become ‘unsettled’ or ‘rattled’ at the changes taking place in their micro-environments, while simultaneously feeling the impact of the greater world event energy, simultaneously.   

Let us be honest – the external energies this month globally, already are extreme.

It is a lot to digest, right?  Well, that’s October – a time of bounty and feasting, celebration and Jupiter is asking you to look at both your material world and your spiritual one.
 
The above is all about the human’s mess.  So now ask yourself, where your soul sits in all of this…. Where do you see yourself? 

Autumn is upon us.  Situations, relationships, and projects are sifting out.  What falls away by the hand of the Universe is for purpose we may or may not see, but we must trust it is for the highest good in order to move into the light of where we are meant to go next on this journey.


That looks like a powerful statement in context, doesn’t it? 
 


It is, but it need not be daunting or overwhelming – now is the time to trust in its greater purpose.  

The human has a hard time with change, which you know by now is inevitable – as we have discussed this many times.  However, the truth is sometimes we need to go through the tough stuff to further test our character, our strength, and evolve into our new reality for the shift to happen.

What do I mean by shift?

Well, let us start looking the things included in a shift for your handling the bigger picture:
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  •  Inconveniences for the human (when things do not go according to your plan)
  • Timing (when timing is off, you think of it as a negative – but in truth it can work for you)

  • Human free will (things that others do which affect you or may cause a ripple to the two bullet points above)

  • The unexpected life curveball you did not see coming.

Every action has a consequence.  The points above are involved in your ‘everyday life.’ 

This, unbelievably is the smaller stuff.  Humans tend to be tangled up in this knot due to lack of control, organization, or some sort of fear/belief that it relates to something negative.

However, what if I were to tell you that the above is like a ‘super temp’ who comes into ‘the office of your life’ to clear out the clutter for you so you can see clearly and focus on your greater picture priorities? 

This is why October is the sifter of said bounty.  Bounty is not always good….sometimes it is merely excess clutter you do not need and that includes energy.

Maybe October is not really about you being this octopus….and maybe you are not supposed to juggle more than you can handle right now, so you can refine and redefine your authentic soul truth of the environment you desire with the situations that can help foster greater growth. 

What happens in this fourth quarter clean-up is better for your eight arms… you are a human, and while you may pride yourself at being a supreme juggler, it may be time to get back in touch with your human two arms to balance out something better for your human.

If we take a step back to see your multi-focal lens, let’s regroup and focus on the fact that you are not losing arms, nor are you losing your ability to juggle, but rather you are giving your other arms a sabbatical of sorts to rediscover your priorities.  

Think of it like optimizing your own performance engine of sorts for being able to put your energies into situations, projects, people and relationships that have a deeper level of resonance for what your truth seeks as the seeker you are from the soul place.

While it is nice to be ultra-busy, know that the temporary adrenaline rush can only serve you to the point of your own delayed imbalance.  Sometimes it is in the subtleties of what is happening in your favor, you can see both sides of what you need vs. how it aligns with what you truly want. 

This clarity comes from this time where you can assess what is left – like a garage sale of your life.  What is left from the aftermath of the tornado, and the fall-away from your red-tag sale, is what you have to work with.


  • ·         The bigger question for your soul is what do you choose to keep now? 

  • ·         What do you subscribe to as a new energy?  

  • ·         Where are your energies best serving for your real vision? 

  • ·         Who is authentically there for you and unselfishly choosing to be there with no hidden agenda?

  • ·         When and how to you integrate your personal boundaries after the shakeout?

You have unlimited potential, but limited and finite energies in any twenty-four hour period. 
How you choose to show up should be with the genuine intent of your truth.  

So as you look at October ask yourself what works with who you truly are, what you seek, what you think/believe you want and where you are investing your time, energy and how it either depletes you or sustains you.   

Here you will see what you need to see, in order to deal with your inner octopus.  

Perhaps you will just have to wait until you are born as an actual octopus in your next life.

Namaste.


   

Monday, September 24, 2018

REMOVING THE CAUTIOUS LABEL LINK FROM YOUR OPTIMISM





I sit here with coffee steaming from my cup on this overcast California morning.
Today is different.  It feels different from my usual instinct of bolting like a wild horse out the gate as the lifelong caffeine achiever that I am. 

Instead, on this day, I sit with the crows cawing.  As loud as they are, the air is still and quiet, yet there is movement flowing. I hear them, smile and say "thank you." 

They signal the change that is happening, (a gift) transformation, destiny, alchemy, and assistance as medicine to support intention. 

They ask you to pull back for assessment and self-counsel so you can be more assured of your steps to ensure a level of positivity for the changes you make in your life. That is their true representation, though others would not agree.

Some nature people believe crows signal being “cautiously optimistic” - however, that has always seemed oxymoronic to me. 

While others may look at this as the crow’s trickster magic, I dare to challenge and ask, “Isn’t the real trickster here, your own perception within your own mind?”

Think about that for a second, as I gently ask you to get back to me with your own thoughts. 

Meanwhile, I graciously thank you for allowing me to share thoughts of my own…

I do not subscribe in being “cautiously optimistic.”  This is a very distinctive contrast for me – you are either optimistic or you are not. Perception is always subjective, but in my eyes optimism should be pure motivation, inspiration and organic as it is… it does not need a side-label to sabotage itself.

Why should one caution one’s self about being positive?  If you tweak the LINK in your brain to believe optimism is not something you should be afraid of feeling, then cautious optimism does not have to be necessary or even exist. Why be afraid of being positive? 

Most choose this as a ‘guard’ or a ‘wall’ (defense mechanism) in order to protect themselves from being hurt, disappointed or hopeful. This is where human ego attaches itself to the outcome.  But what if you detach yourself from the outcome and merely be optimistic that things will turn out the way they are supposed to for REAL CHANGE to happen as a result of whatever happens?  We do not control everything – life has a way of bringing things to light for us to see, to create change even from the challenges. 

While, intellectually I accept from others that people like to cross fingers, hope for the best, and do not wish to put eggs all in one basket like an Easter bunny, let’s keep in mind that hidden golden eggs in life exist.

In other words, disappointment only comes when you have expectation from the get-go and THIS is the reason WHY people utilize that phrase.  

Are you smiling at that one?  Isn't it silly to be your own buzz kill before you even can experience the actual ‘surprise of joy?’  Why do that to yourself? 

Go ahead and laugh... millions of people do this to themselves every day.  
While it is not funny, (sad actually) that this is happening and we can create change from this space; it is funny to think that it is such a "well, DUH/A-HA" moment that has not come to light sooner.

But alas it is here for you. That's you're golden egg for today.  You're welcome. :D

Unexpected joy that comes out of left field, out-of-the-blue, and that is the golden egg moment.  


  • How frequently do you see your moments like this? 
  • How often do you express gratitude for this blip of joy?    
  • Do you take it for granted?

What if you remove expectation entirely and put your optimistic energy into everything breathing the lifeline of gratitude in said moment?  Wouldn’t the quality of your life be better by doing this? 

WHY is this important?  You are merely blessing it with positive energy. 

There is no failure if you have tried and if you put your optimism there into your effort, isn’t that a better way to go?  Isn’t it better to be positive about everything, even if things do not go your way?  This Lovely Souls is called “Doing your best and being okay with knowing you did your best.”  

This is where self-acceptance is born.  If we do not accept ourselves first – how in the world are we going to be in a place where we can co-exist with others?  

Chew on that for a bit. 

Shouldn’t we be supporting THAT instead?  

Doesn’t that reinforce the human psyche and spirit from another place entirely? 

Whether or not you agree with me, my point is to share the ‘twist’ on what energy work can do for you.

We should choose to accept that no effort is wasted.  One’s identity and attachment to outcome is about hope, not cautious optimism. We should change how we connect to it because being “cautiously optimistic” has a similar vibration as “reluctantly hopeful.” 
Isn’t that just half-assed energy?  

Instead, let us feed optimism by giving it all of our love, light, hope, faith, trust and belief, If we do that, optimism has a chance to flourish to become what it was intended to become. 

Doesn’t that make better sense and a more constructive use of the energy you put out from your soul?  If it doesn’t – perhaps I need to provide more clarity, so allow me to articulate it this way…(Watch Video for a full explanation)



Now that we have that down, let’s talk about breaking the mold – the one that imprisons you to believe all of the negative stuff that keeps you captive from living from the place of liberation, joy and true freedom from soul and higher consciousness level.  

Whoa, right?  Yeah, I said it.. but I am not just a mouthpiece, I believe it.

Here’s the thing Lovely Souls – while we cannot control the outcome of anything with others involved, we can manage our own life, consciousness, and ability to put optimism in our being to be all in for showing up positively as best as we can.  

Isn’t that how you want to remember yourself living when all of this is done?  

Take a moment to assess that you have twenty-four hours you put into your day.   

You can choose to waste it with destructive negative energy or actually be a catalyst for change by choosing positive energy to find solutions, answers and constructively be part of shaping the energy into something that can make a difference. 

How we link to changing the dynamics of ‘molds’ is a big piece of this.  

Why so?  

If we stay complacent in accepting molds that do not work in our best interest for change as a standard, we lose the opportunity to shift ourselves into a place to move things forward.  

Breaking molds starts with choosing to do so. Let’s start with breaking the self-sabotage mold of believing that optimism requires a caution label… you’ll be glad you did.

Namaste.