Monday, January 16, 2017


“Have a nice day!”

How many times have you heard this in your lifetime?

The bigger question is … do you consciously do your best to create a nice day for everyone around you, and are you aware that by doing so you are actually creating the outcome of your day? 

If you were to count the number of times someone said, “Have a nice day!” you might be surprised that you did not hear the sincerity beyond the social convention enough to be pro-active with the wish.

Some of you may be surprised to find that perhaps you heard this statement every day of your life since you could speak sentences.  Maybe you have heard it so many times that you don’t even hear this statement anymore, or were too busy or preoccupied to actually notice that someone wished for you to “have a nice day.” 

Some of you may be surprised that maybe your circles of people you have in your life do not have the ability to be conscious outside of themselves to receive your kind wishes

While there are others still, who may have had the pleasure of knowing what a nice day actually is comprised of, because they live life in a bubble of bitterness. 

Still, there are pessimists who do not even bother wishing for you to “have a nice day,” because they themselves are far too jaded to understand what that means.

Regardless of which camp you presently sit in, all that matters right now is that you hear these words…. “Have a nice day!”


It is important for you to understand that whatever external circumstances happen outside of your day to try to ‘create’ your day, that at the end of the day, you are ultimately responsible for having a nice day.

Sure, sometimes things completely out of our control affect our day. 

There are times when something out-of-the-blue, and so randomly unexpected throws a wrench in our well-laid plans or we are thrown a curve ball.  

Other times, we can have the perfect idea of how we map out our day and it may go all according to a meticulously itemized timeline or agenda just as we plan.

But for most of the humans on Earth, the Universe may have its very own plan, despite what we think we have planned.

The big shift in our perception is all about comprehending that “having a nice day” is up to us no matter what happens.  This idea goes far beyond turning lemons into lemonade, but rather accepting our own definition of what ‘nice’ is within our minds and in our hearts.
We can find nice moments.

We can also create them to change the course of our day.

Linking our minds to this concept, we are expanding our own awareness in building our own nice days by the art of creation and what a nice day entails in both content as well as value.

Looking at obstacles with a different set of eyes, we can see daily challenges we can overcome or lessons we can learn and ways we can strengthen our own idea of how we think things should be at any given moment.

If we understand that the proverbial “silver lining” is indeed in every cloud, without pre-judging it as some Pollyanna way of thinking, we can grow and expand our idea within our own minds of how we can create change. 

Linking to our day and the positive links within it help us grasp the concept of adopting to a new behavior as well as adapting to a new mindset. 

In this realm of accepting “what can be possible,” we open the doors to actually “having a nice day” each and every day by opening our ideas about what that looks like.

How we choose to shape our day puts our own “connection” back to the LINK that we see as “nice” rather than dwelling on the not-so-nice aspects of what our day is composed from, and how we process the emotion we place on our day.



Friday, January 6, 2017


Each year we are given the gift of a fresh beginning with the start of the New Year.

For some, this means New Year’s resolutions to add to the growing ‘to do’ list.
For others, it can be an entire life transformation with a new residence, new job/career, or the birth of a new beginning with the addition or loss to the family or household.

Goals, dreams, plans, ideas, and visions are a part of new energy for many, but so is a shifted mindset, perspective, belief, or tweaked behavior, that changes your existing LINKS to new ones. 

Your entire surrounding environment may have impact on your own new energy.  

Do not underestimate the LINK between connective influence, and/or the mind, body, soul connection between transmitted environmental energy you absorb, transfer, embrace or in some instances, repel. 

New energy can mean different things based on where you presently sit in your being. 
Is it possible to become aware of new energy fields within your existing one?

The answer is YES.

However, let us not lose sight that mere self-awareness on its own can be a new energy link you can invite into your life simply by staying conscious.

EXAMPLE:  If you sit in a room filled with a variety of stimuli, a circle of ten people will not be on the exact same page being aware of the same energy field.  

Some may notice only the visuals; others have more auditory awareness, while another few may tap into how they ‘feel in this room’ or what energy they pick up from others sitting next to them and their response to what is seen, heard and/or felt. 

For some, a triggered “old behavioral response” may occur; while for others a nostalgic recollection heightening memory sensory awareness. 

Are you able to ‘catch yourself’ mid-stream in your consciousness to be aware of what is a default behavioral LINK to your ‘familiar’ energy field vs. the conscious and mindful ability to shift your own gears into new energy fields? 

Everyone has the power to do this one self-initiated act.

Though for many, the comfort-zone of the familiar energy field usually becomes the favorable one rather than embracing a new pathway to receive unfamiliar energy.


As humans we possess energy, give energy and receive energy.

LINKING to any one of these streams at any given moment takes a certain consciousness to bring our awareness of our energy links into view in order to shift it like a gear shift in action as it is happening in the present moment. 

If we take this same premise and apply it to our daily surroundings as we enter the New Year, we enable ourselves to bring about a new awareness link within our being, even if our present circumstances do not change.  

We then become the changed new energy link ourselves by our own openness within the awareness of where we are and how we respond to any and all situations. 

Why is this important?

Communication is the foundation where this new energy link of change can transform our being.  Reaction, response and reinvention of our reaction/response in real time to any situation is a LINK OF NEW ENERGY all its own. 

Humans naturally gravitate toward the tangible changes at the beginning of the New Year, looking for immediate gratification of said results and often get frustrated when they do not see immediate evidence of a change taking place.  

However, it is in our awareness link within our new energy field we can witness such immediacy taking place if we consciously bring ourselves back to the idea that ‘results’ can be found within our own reinvention of said reaction/response of said awareness. 

While it is natural to try to ‘seek’ change outside ourselves, we have the ability to create change at will within our own awareness by remaining present to the pre-existing consciousness shift as we make it at the time the effort is applied, rather than waiting for the aftermath to prove it as truth/reality.

Suddenly, we become the truth/reality of the new link of energy, creating change within a single shift of awareness.  

So as you start this New Year, be mindful of the fact changes are taking place and new energy is present around you and WITHIN you all of the time.  You have the ability to tap into this at any moment in your present state of awareness and being.