Thursday, June 2, 2022

LINKING TO THE PROCESS OF DEVELOPING NEXT-LEVEL COMPASSIONATE COMMUNICATION

 


As our world spins, global events happen, and our communities heal, we as humanity are feeling a lot in the day-to-day at a higher level of present-day consciousness. 

For businesses who are in a hefty barrage of communicating their external product/service promotion to ride the wave of a fluctuating economy, this is tricky territory as to not to appear insensitive to the serious nature of what is happening in the world.

For individuals inside and outside of work, the process of ‘processing’ one’s own compassion exhaustion may be overwhelming in the ‘24/7 feeling zone’ after repetitive stretching of one’s own limits to hear one more negative story/sadness occurring on this planet where we all reside.

With most things contributing to our questioning the status of the on-going existential crisis it may feel taxing to our own evaluation of where we are in every given moment.

It is here we need to remember that compassionate communication is a three-way communication system:

1)      How we show up in the world doing/being/remedying. 

2)      The compassion we have for the events in the world. 

3)      Self-compassion to refuel the daily depleted tank from points 1 & 2.

4)      Repeat.

This ‘cycle’ is important for our tenacity, survival and mental health, a key to 'doing something' or purposeful and meaningful existence to the world or human condition. 

However, It is key to our ideal ‘well-being’ to put into practice item #3, which often gets IGNORED.  Yes, we are survivors and warriors, and doers, however there is also an unhealthy energy in this process of exerting so much compassion, we lose self-compassion and it becomes destructive in nature to our ability to 'keep going' and to 'keep doing' at the high-level expectation we create of said process.

It is time to remember we are not machines, we are people.  As humanity shifts its survival consciousness, we must learn to acknowledge that item #3 is vital to thriving, healing recovery of our sensory perception and also to ground ourselves in a place of strength so we can be in better place of support that is actually EFFECTIVE, MEANINGFUL AND PRODUCTIVE, not just auto-pilot motions.  When we all get into the place where which we lose steam from the initial heart focused intention of the 'original WHY' - when we've lost clarity, purpose, mission and reasoning. Efforts then become half-capacity efforts and our own psyche, soul, and health exhaust from the lack of putting quality item #3 as #1.

Proactive solution initiation is only as effective as the foundation on which this is built.  This is as true for business as it is for our own psyche/soul and individual human condition. 

If we try to build it on quick sand without conscious healing, we’re doing ourselves a disservice.

If we seek quick-fix immediate gratification resolves, we set ourselves up for failure.

What we can do is pull back to see clearly amid the chaos a more effective way of communicating with compassion during turbulent times and much of that begins with each of us taking responsibility for ourselves, accountable actions and even ignorance.

The last bit there, you don’t often hear in the mainstream day-to-day. People do not like to admit ignorance, for fear it shows weakness and vulnerability.  In truth, admitting ignorance is an opportunity to gain strength in learning what you don’t know.

But quite often, people fear judgment for what they don’t know and much of this comes from being psychologically programmed into believing there are dumb questions, when in fact asking a question is for the sake of learning, growing, betterment and improving the human condition. When we INVITE knowledge, education and learning, over time this transforms into wisdom which can never be taken from our soul’s knowing.  So why not ask questions?  Why not dig into the WHY so we can actually apply the HOW-TO SOLUTIONS with more effectiveness?

If a light bulb just went off in your head right now as in ‘ah ha’ – be glad your own self-awareness has brought you to the place to literally open yourself to full self-compassion so you can exercise this muscle into greater compassion.  From here we can grow things.  Consciousness is key and actually opens all of us up to a place of greater potential and possibilities to find REAL SOLUTIONS.

So how many questions have YOU asked today?

How many questions did you ask yesterday?

What questions do you have about the past which has brought you to the present day of questioning?

How will your questioning today shape your tomorrow?

Silly at it may appear to ask these questions, chances are you have not asked yourself these questions, nor has anyone bothered to care about what you think enough to ask you these questions to even put you in a position to question within yourself.

Don’t worry… This doesn’t have to be a #sadtruth but rather it can be a starting point to a new way in how you LINK TO THE PROCESS to develop your next level of compassionate communications.

The old cookie-cutter way of addressing our feelings cannot be applied now.

Our world has changed.

We have changed.

Our methods must also change, as remedies to things cannot stay the same. They must also evolve as we do!

So ask yourself now - "What is it I truly need to recharge myself in order to show up better?" 

Be honest as you ask yourself this question with your new self-actualized truth answer. If we examine the fact that the VOLUME of the news we're thrown today over a 24 hour period is nearly double or triple of what it used to be, we must acknowledge this.  This new place of realization also means our mental processing is working on overload and on overtime in a way that we did not function prior to the pandemic, war and violence.

If we're practicing self-compassion with this realty we can now get better traction as to how our energy expenditure (inclusive of external compassionate expenditure emotionally) is taking its toll.

It begins here, with each of us.

Starting with this self-evaluation process improves your human life, your day-to-day hamster wheel work life and even the health and life of your business external choices because you’re not constantly navigating the old paradigm of how things used to be.

I’m in my fifth-tier level of 'next-level' awareness in my seventh year of educating ‘next level’ evolutionary awareness.  

What we communicate and why, and how we communicate to ourselves in the 3D, as we process the bridge of the 4D to the 5D growth trajectory is vital.  

All of this actually transitions into what is happening outside of ourselves. 

Our current world outlook is dependent upon our own awareness as it is evolving and changing.  We’re on a different trajectory than we were a decade ago.  This has nothing to do with actual tangible time as much as it has to do with where humanity is gravitating toward next in healing pre-existing wounds that were not fully addressed appropriately for our human condition.

If we are to find a new level of compassion for many histories repeating itself, it begins with all of us to be conscious enough to address real change head-on with the kind of compassion that lacked (and was severely needed) prior to the avalanche of events we’ve experienced these last few years.

As we look to working with our present-day reality, let’s make a commitment toward improving upon compassionate action so our world can have a chance to begin again on the right footing.

I wish all of you Lovely Souls the dedicated time to heal what is needed so that you can refortify the LINK to a renewed process in your day-to-day compassionate journey.

Blessings, peace, love and light.

Namaste.
Stacey Kumagai

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Saturday, May 14, 2022

LINKING OPTIMISM, TRUST AND GROWTH

 

 


TRUST. We have heard all of this throughout our human incarnation in our lifetime.

As a collective consciousness, we’ve shifted in our own perception as we look at the world we are living in today, as we try to ‘recall’ the past, try to live in the present and embrace an unknown future from what we believe we ‘know.’

Today, as we venture onward into this weekend’s glorious Super Flower Blood Moon, nature’s own phenomenon of cosmic events, we understand scientific, philosophical and spiritual minds accept, see and embrace differently, (but with the same passion).

This is not a gloom-and-doom moon (none of them are BTW); rather it is a polar opposite in positivity by the contrasting energy it is sharing.

Humanity in general will be feeling the vibes – we must look at this as a SIGN of the present moment and of the times with regard to the symbolism of TRUST with OPTIMISM in our minds and hearts.

The name itself – Super Flower Blood Moon  – if you examine its identity is SHOWING ALL OF US the true nature of identity.

What does this mean exactly?  It is saying “Hey, pay attention, balance the heck out and find your own growth and positive energy seeing said contrast…. We’re challenging you to see it, accept it, love it and be grateful for it as you keep living.”

Let me break it down so you can look up:

Flowers and blood, moon and sun, light and dark shadow eclipse season – the contrast and context of this is not lost on those who see what this means in terms of trusting what we know, rather it is asking all of us to have faith in what we presently do not.  It is in the times of reflection outward, we go within.  It is in the chaos, we dare to attempt to find some beauty.

Yes, whoa – so much, right? 

It is a lot for us to process.  However, it is not impossible to find NEW TRUST in what we learn.

We do this daily task of processing information.  New information always comes. New insights are always revealed, along with new truths – it is up to/for us to see the meaning of the contrast.

It has been said that life is like school, a series of lessons we go through to understand life better.

Here, we as a collective get to find our place of gratitude for what is and still in what could be, and that includes within our own selves, having the TRUST AND FAITH that we’re learning and can continue to learn.   It is here we can also see that as we recall our own soul-knowing knowledge, WE CAN PIECE TOGETHER something bigger – dare I say SUPER as in the Super Moon?!

All Super Moons are showing us ways to emotionally connect to the deeper aspects of life’s meaning and to find positive ways to appreciate blessings which do grace our path. 

In the Northern Hemisphere as we embrace spring and this spring flowering moon, it is both literal and figurative in the same breath of appreciating what emerges in our own TRUTH and GROWTH.  For the Southern Hemisphere experiencing autumn, it is about seeing what springs up amid what simultaneously falls away in realization of evolution. 

When we have an autumn Harvest Moon, the same is true in contrast to both Northern and Southern Hemispheres, to appreciate what was and what that actually showed us.

As we look back on the past with compassion for our less-evolved selves, with patience and kindness in baby-stepping our growth (and others) into the wiser humans from the trust of our own soul’s knowing, we see things we did not see before.

It is here, in this process we learn to TRUST the process of our growth and knowing, evolving and being as we step into becoming from what we’ve retained, remembered, recalled (this is what Retrograde is for) and regurgitate.

Super Flower Blood Moon now suddenly means blossoming from the battles, trusting there is always light even in darkness and growing toward the change and evolution from all that has been learned up until this point.

HERE ARE SOME PERSONAL INVENTORY QUESTIONS:

1)      What do I recognize as my strongest and weakest parts of myself that have changed since this time last year?

2)      What do I see now as the positive light, when I was eclipsed in the past by my shadow self?

3)      Where do I see my own perception flowering as new growth from past narrow-mindedness?

4)      How can I utilize the acquired trust I didn’t have before to show me new insights?

 

As you answer the above four questions during this Super Flower Blood Moon weekend, be kind, gentle, honest and trusting of what you express to yourself as a ‘reveal.’  This is what this reflective time is ultimately for, to show you what your subconscious mind may have been too busy to even process or recognize! 

Regardless of the kind of cosmic events that occur every season and year, we are being asked to have trust and faith and to occasionally ‘look up’ (safely) to the new energy that is showing us new things all of the time, whether we see it or not.

Our energy shift can/will then take shape until the next energetic event as we accept that growth, change and evolution are a constant and trust continues to test our mettle as humans, because we’re being shown our soul’s ‘knowing’ purposeful intent and reason for all things, seasons and knowledge.

This is a transformative time… one that can hold great growth in everyone’s ‘next ‘phase of life.

With that, I am sending you peace, light and love as you allow your own flowering growth, recognition and perception to shape-shift you into your next evolutionary process of how you continue to change in your own self-discovery.

Blessings to you!

Namaste,

Stacey Kumagai

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Wednesday, April 20, 2022

REINTERPRETING YOUR TOP 20 LINKS TO WELLNESS

 


How do you answer the question, “How are you?”

Today, in year three of this new altered timeline unrecognizable world, we will automatically go back to an archaic time asking this old question, “How are you?”

In the present moment, today’s answers will vary as we notice the shift in humanity becoming truly honest, no longer simply offering “I’m fine” or “I am well” as the default response.

Sometimes you will hear the familiar answer, however the tone is not the same canned answer as before in social convention, rather a lilt indicating “I’m fine” with about two or three hours-worth of back story, which may or may not break through the flood gates.  Others will state this response and look at the gratitude for being where they are in contrast to the rest of the world and simply take stock in the being thankful that things in their bubble are not worse.

It is here, we can as humanity see something within each other and within ourselves something beyond what we considered to be a basic question to ask, and we owe it to ourselves to dig deeper with more thought and compassion as we ask and answer the question.

From an emotional front, most of humanity is treading water in the realm of uncertainty.

This is unspoken as most try to stay optimistic after overcoming various losses, changes and life-altering events within their communities.

This is not a flippant guesstimate, rather it is true from the standpoint of our heart space as we see so much destruction and worldwide despair in the throes of war and death, the pandemic, violence, the global warming crisis with continuous weather events, compounded grief, numerous economic, housing, and food insecurities, long-term chronic health challenges, and the rapid upheaval to our lives, businesses, communities and push for change in ways most never anticipated.

While the world is desperate to try to ‘return’ to the way things were, the reality is, it is not the same world, even as we reinvent it hoping and striving for positive outcome.

This is where everyone struggles in grasping the familiar while blindly going into the unfamiliar.

If you have been a longtime reader of this blog, you know that together we have transformed our own energies through my hundreds of videos of living in void and dealing with the unknown and how to release our control over things which are meant to fall away.

We have in that time, risen to higher consciousness of knowing who we are on deeper levels of our own comprehension as we've been asked to rise to the next level.

However, this is not to say the next level is easy, nor comfortable and no matter how much we step into our conscious knowing of stepping out of our comfort zones, doesn't mean that everyday pedestrian things as in the simple question "HOW ARE YOU?" can be answered as we once knew it.

The truth is our world has indeed changed.  You and I have both changed and continue to evolve as we adapt, gear-shift and navigate this 'new normal' world that seems abnormal to our senses in the 3D Human World of existence even if our 5D souls know better.

So what can we ourselves do to find our day-to-day comfort within our well-being in our communication with each other starting within ourselves to reinterpret out LINK to wellness?

We can LINK to the core of our being in our energy centers of what we do know/feel/recognize to create the balance we desire to improve.

While we cannot control everything in life or the world, the one thing we all can do is take ownership to our existing anxiety and stress levels to bring peaceful being to our day-to-day as we navigate life and what is next.

So let’s start with answering the question “How are you?” and truly assess this daily check-in. 

HERE ARE THE TOP 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF (HONESTLY) AS YOU BEGIN THE STEPS TO REINTERPRETING YOUR OWN LINK TO WELLNESS AND WELL-BEING: 

How are you……..

  • 1)      Feeling
  • 2)      Sitting in what you’re thinking
  • 3)      Understanding your loved ones in this moment, space and time
  • 4)      Reassessing your own perceptions
  • 5)      Reaching out to ask for help
  • 6)      Reaching out to help others
  • 7)      Finding peace within yourself
  • 8)      Looking at what you can proactively do to change
  • 9)      Saying goodbye to what you know
  • 10)   Saying hello to what you don’t know
  • 11)   Collectively discussing these truths
  • 12)   Continuing to dig deeper for your own truth
  • 13)   Observing the new reality
  • 14)   Linking to your interpretation of this reality
  • 15)   Discovering wellness in your daily moments
  • 16)   Taking the time to honor your own well-being as a work-in-progress
  • 17)   Respecting other people’s current place in their own work-in-progress
  • 18)   Choosing to invest your energy
  • 19)   Reclaiming your own wellness energy
  • 20)   Sharing reserved energy to create peaceful daily living

 

If we take a look at our own personal inventory, we can start from this point of understanding our present-day interpretation of our own ways in which we link to mind-body wellness from the conscious space to the actualized/realized space.

This starting point is key to finding our own balance.

Within this balance we are able to gain traction and footing on where we are, how we truly feel and above all, how to effectively manage the barrage of changing emotions amid our changing world.

It’s not easy for most humans.  Human instinct is to feel things for a reason.  However, humans have somehow gotten into the bad habit of distraction, deflection and escape. These are temporary bandages which do not resolve anything for the long-term, they are mere coping mechanisms which do not replace daily check-ins with yourself before and after you take on your day.

If the whole point is to thrive rather merely survive, we must take responsibility on a daily basis to clearly understand and have compassion for ourselves so we can be better humans to help others with our reserves.  Though if we exhaust all of our reserves, while simultaneously ignore our own wellness, we’re setting ourselves up for challenges.

Take the time today to start asking yourself the question “How are you?” as you look in the mirror.  This effort is worth this time, you are worth this very important time.  Review the top 20 points above and gain some clarity and perspective on where you sit with where you are with what you have so you can do what you can do proactively to make that leap to wellness and wellbeing, so things can truly be ‘fine’ in real time.

Blessings and Peace to you, Lovely Souls.

Namaste,

Stacey Kumagai

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